The Socratic Selling Method
Socratic
Method: A method of teaching or
discussion, as used by Socrates, in which one asks a series of easily answered
questions that inevitably lead the answerer to a logical conclusion.
- Respect
the customer
- Help the
customer think
- Help the
customer make decisions.
The most
common complaint about sales people is, from both customers and sales managers
is that sales people simply talk too much. And since most of us do indeed talk
too much, what do you think the second most frequent complaint we hear about
sales people would be? Sales people don't listen.
One simple
way to combat both of these short comings is to integrate the Socratic Selling
Method into our transactions. We can trace its origins all the way back to 400
BC! That's when Socrates, the famous philosopher from Athens, first introduced the art of
collaborative debate or asking easily answered questions to help someone come
to a logical conclusion.
The
customer owns the past.
The
customer has no stake in the future – until the past has been dealt with.
Help the
customer tell the story.
We learned
early on in our selling careers that the person asking the questions has
control. It's just that most of us only take the time to learn questions that
help us land the customer on a particular unit and close the deal. (remember the
ABC: always be closing) These are questions that our customers perceive as only
serving us, not them. With Socratic questioning, each question draws us and our
customer closer. We get a better understanding of how best to serve our
customer. They get a feeling of being valued and understood. We both join our
strengths in a collaborative effort to satisfy their needs. The result is a
less stressful, much less combative, and much shorter (time wise) transaction.
Here's
what's involved:
First, we
need to open the transaction with what's called a "Socratic opener". Typically,
this occurs right after our greeting and it gives notice our intention of
serving our customer's needs and not ours. If they mention a product/service
they are interested in, we say, "Mr. Customer, I'm fully prepared to
discuss the xxx with you, so first let me get your perspective on it, that way
we can focus our time together on the things that interest you the most."
If they
don't have a particular product/service in mind, we can modify it this way,
"Mr. Customer, I'm fully prepared to help you make the best choice, the
one that's right for you. So, first let me get your feelings about your needs,
and that way we can focus our time together on the things that interest you the
most."
By
announcing we are "prepared," we demonstrate that we are responsible
and competent. By acting responsibly, we begin the building of our own
credibility. By inviting our customer to tell us what is important to them, we
show them that we value their time and their input. We also begin the
transaction in a collaborative manner. By stating we want to focus the time
spent together on what they think is important, we give our customer the
control most buyers long for. We also tell them that we won't be wasting their
time.
Next, we
need to help them put more of their information out on the table by using
Socratic probes. Socratic probes are nothing more than easily answered
questions. "Tell me more...", or "What else should I know
about...", or "Why is that important to you?", or "How will
you be using...", or "What else would help me understand...", or
"Could you please expound upon...". These questions are also very
easy for us to ask. As long as we have the front part of the question committed
to memory, the rest of the question just sort of asks itself based on what our
customer has already told us.
Another
important aspect of encouraging our customers to share their wants, needs,
fears, and goals is that, once they do, our solutions will be more credible. Now
our suggestions will be much more appealing because they have been tailored
specifically to them. By allowing our customer to do the majority of the
talking, we also get to pace two of their most basic human needs. We get a
chance to help them feel valued and understood.
Another
benefit of Socratic probes is creating urgency. Often salespeople still use time
of the month, sales quotas, or expiring incentives to create urgency. What most
salespeople do not realize is that many of their customers perceive these
"reasons" as only benefiting the dealership and salesperson ("Do
I really have to care about your sales quotas to get a good deal?") or,
even worse, as artificial sales ploys ("How long have you guys had rebates
now? Twenty years? Isn't it mysterious how they always seem to be 'just about
to end' right about the time I decide to buy a car?"). The customer goes
along with them, of course, as they do with most other dated sales practices,
as simply something they have to put up with to buy a car.
We can use
Socratic probes to create truly relevant urgency. We can ask: "Why
now?", or "You said you weren't in a hurry, right? That's
interesting. So what made you visit a dealership at this time?", or
"What makes this urgent?", or "What made you get started
today?". This is information we can use later to help create real urgency
that is relevant to our customer. These are our customer's reasons to do
business based on our customer's needs. Now to create urgency, we only have to
remind our customer about what they said was urgent enough to make them set
foot on a car lot.
Major
buying decisions are made emotionally first and then we'll grab whatever logic
is available at the time to justify the emotional decision we've already made. We
can get a handle on what our customers are feeling by asking questions like:
"What worries you the most about this?", or "I can tell you're
frustrated by this, how come?", or "What do you want to avoid this
time?", or "Why is this important to you?", or "How will
this affect you and/or your company?", or "How does that make you
feel?".
I suppose
now would be a good time to remind ourselves that in order for these questions
to have their desired effect, we need to listen to what our customer is telling
us. The skill of Active Listening is one that most sales people ignore and is
one of the skill sets that separates the good sales person from the truly
excellent sales professional.
The four
elements to Active Listening are:
- Attentive
Body Language (head nods, eye contact, smiling, etc.)
- Verbal
Attends (small grunts like "uh huh", "okay", "sure",
"I see", etc.)
- Leading
Questions (open-ended questions that encourage them to talk more)
- Restate (paraphrasing
back what our customer has said to us).
Active
Listening is not simply waiting for our turn to talk. It's not interrupting
them to show that we already know what they are talking about. It's not
interrupting them to interject how our product or service satisfies the need
they just shared with us. It's not anything more than simply allowing our
customer to completely share with us their story, then playing that story back
to them, and gaining clarification or confirmation by asking: "Do I have
it right?", or "Did I hear you correctly?", or "Am I
getting the picture?", or "How's that sound?", or "Did I
miss anything?".
You haven’t
listened until you can show you have listened.
We continue
to ask the questions we've all been taught while landing them on a specific product/service,
performing a good feature/benefit presentation.
Then we can
advance the decision making process by asking easily answered questions like:
"If you were to go ahead with this, how would you like your insurance
agent updated with the new vehicle info?", or "If you decided to
proceed, when would you like the xxx installed?", or "If you were
shown three compelling reasons to do business with a particular dealership,
would you be willing to at least keep an open mind?", or "On a scale
of one to ten, ten meaning you love it and are ready to own it, one meaning you
hate it and wouldn't even take it if it were given to you, where would you say
you are?", then, "What would have to occur to make it a ten?".
In these
questions we reduce the pressure by using conditional words like: if, were to,
and would. We also reduce the pressure by eliminating words like: us, I, me,
and we. We can make them even easier to answer by excluding our product brand
or dealership name and by refraining from the use of words like: now, or today.
When they answer us, we can assume the "us", "our product",
"our dealership", and "today". Besides, we'll have plenty
of time to be "more concrete" later on if the need arises.
In the
negotiations, our goal is to keep the process one of collaboration and not one
of confrontation. We can start by stating their interests through summarizing
what our customer has told us concerning their wants, needs, time urgency, and
feelings. We get their clarification or confirmation by asking: "Did I get
it right?", or "How's that sound?", or "Did I miss
anything?". Then we make our proposal based on what they've told us,
making sure we tie the recommendations to benefits and tailor them to our
customer. We then seek their approval by asking: "What's your feelings
about this?".
If an
objection comes up, we can give them an answer tailored specifically to them by
what they have stated to us already. If a tailored answer isn't clear to us, we
can get clarification by helping our customer think it through by asking:
"Why is that important to you?", or "Why is that important right
now?", or "Why do you ask?", or "What is it you're wanting
to discuss?".
If they
make a counter offer that is not acceptable, we can preserve the collaborative
environment by
-
stating
again their interests (their wants, needs, time urgency, and feelings)
-
restating
their position (whatever their counter offer is)
-
saying,
"It's important to me that you understand why what you're asking is a bit
more than they are able to do."
-
giving
the reasons why we can't do what they are asking
-
saying,
"May I share with you a solution I think will be acceptable to
everyone?"
-
making
a counter proposal.
Don’t
negotiate just to get the sale. Negotiate to upgrade the sale for yourself and
the customer.
Help the
customer make the buying decision. Regain the momentum by summarising. Make a
diary statement. “In order to do this for you, let’s get out our diaries and
schedule the next steps.” Specify the next steps:
-
Actions
the customer offers to take.
-
Actions
the customer wants you to take.
-
Actions
you offer to take.
-
Actions
you want the customer to take.
-
Attach
dates to all action steps.
Time is the
recorder of responsibility. Close on a
point in time.
As with any
new skill, the Socratic Selling Method requires lots of practice and refining
to our vocabulary, personality, and philosophy of doing business. Making the
sales transaction one of collaboration and not one of confrontation is possible
when we engage our customers in the process. By asking easily answered
questions, we not only gain insight into what our customer's dominant buying
motives are, but we also help our customers feel valued and understood. By
taking the extra time to get to know and engage our customer, we actually
dramatically speed up the buying process.
We've all
heard this before, "Our customers don't care how much we know until they
know how much we care." Socratic Selling gives us the opportunity to
demonstrate to our clients that we really are different and that we actually do
care.